Sunday, January 17, 2016

Watch out for the time!

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Check his wrist watches, does he have your time :

Quality time is not a gift of an expensive Rolex watches but a gift of his presence paying rapt attention to you. Most times men would likely decide to woo gals outside the category and class of women they naturally would go out with. Don't just conclude that they won't have your time maybe because his levels and class supersedes yours.

Watch out if the attention they paid after a very long time is not serving their lustful purpose; check, likely, they might have your time at that moment not because they love you but because the previous gal is gone so he needed the service of a laundry lady, a cleaner and a cook in the guise that he loves you.

 Check out if the reason they called after a long time is not as a result of their loneliness, maybe he needed a company for a time being. Love is not just a spoken word but a doing word . They have to prove to you that when your presence is not seen, it is felt. A good lover holds his lover close to his heart.

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Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Don't be Merciful than God.

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Code 9: DON'T BE MORE MERCIFUL THAN GOD
Animals have the capacity to learn and Adapt but it largely depend on its instinct to connect to its environment and safe itself from danger. Humans in the other hand relies on their thinking and rationality to understand its environment and analyze situations but most times the human brain is slow, it cannot multitask and in most cases interrupted greatly by the emotions. Women are emotional being and when they are emotionally inclined into a relationship, even when a guy is playing a game or ill treat them, they are sure to endure and accept his pleas even when they know its all deception. Once or twice a guy misbehaves and his misbehavior is being treated with lavity, he is sure to take you for granted.
Create no middle ground, don't be more merciful than God, take the control back. And if a guy messes up, treat it right away, measure his offenses, know when to sanction, when to overlook and when to leave and never turn back to his life. That means you must know what you want from a man and have a real standards too. Let him be at your mercy not the other way round.



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Sunday, December 27, 2015

Dont sell your apple so cheap

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Code 7: DONT SELL YOUR APPLE CHEAP

 It is true that little escapes our notice, because we are very visual people yet don't sell yourself cheap to him. Just like Inyanya, for most men all they want is your waist, and like Wizkid they want to see your body sleeping on their bed....... Chris Brown want to see you strip. With this in mind, guys believe this is 21st century when they get your apple product cheap in no time. With likes of whatapps, Facebook, Twitter, 2go, eskimo which opened a window for the low esteemed ladies to chat and feel among, for the shy to hook up individually with a guy avoiding a thousand eyes, it created a joint where the restrainted gal can hide away in the internet doing all sort and the lonely gal who converse in the joy of finding a soulmate but the ignorant and desperate ladies are being lured to a guys home and the rest is history. Some exchange nude pictures while some log it out online with cyber sex. This made the game easy for guys and they are having their way. Don't indulge in all this nonsense, it dwindles your class!!!


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Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Minding your heart

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When you glorify a figure in your mind as regards a prospective spouse, you make it difficult to see the one God is showing you. As humans, we are easily carried away when we see a figure that resembles the one in our mind, we often get excited when we see them and let our heart be won at no price.
This people might be acting out a scene that suits you, but not the actual fit for your life. For your Life is not about people who act true but about people who remain true in your life.

As a friend Funke Temitope rightly said, "Your LIFE is a PUZZLE, don’t waste your time trying to place people where they don’t fit."..you can't put a square peg in a round hole. Desperation, loneliness, external influences and impatience may not allow you to be objective.

But bear in mind, Everything that you want in life have been pre-ordered by your maker, they may not be coming with a price tag, but when you lose them, you will know the cost.

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