Don't be misled by vanity:
"Money is no Security, Spirituality is real Security"
His position in the bank matters less if he has no caps in heaven. Don't be longing for what he has, root for who he is, for that is the only way you can find peace and love in a union. Is he a Christian, is his lifestyle, attitude and behaviour culled from the Scriptures? Am sure you need a Joseph who won't sleep with every Portiphar's wife. Neither will you become Portiphar's wife.
Remember, He won't be there to protect you physically all the time when he marries you but you need an assurance that his godly life and prayers will draw down angels to surround you at every side when he is not there with you.
And am sure you just don't need a man who has a gal in every city he plays, but you need a man who is strong enough to correct the wrongs around him and the might to stand for what is right. Even when your presence is absent, the thoughts of you will always keep him company.
In this process Strive to appear pretty but strive more to become relevant. There are lots of painted faces everywhere in competition, so work hard not to arouse his loin but strive to arouse his intellect and desire for God and don't allow your wife material to drop one yard in the process.
Trust not your beauty but believe in God. Your beauty can buy a space in the front sit of his car but it can't buy a space in his heart when his head is telling him there is your replacement close by. But the gift of God is good and add no sorrow.
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