The ACT Of Tantamount

Your Fear Is A Tantamount


Sandra informed her friend Jane Brown about coming over to enable them solve their assignments together, Sandra who was scared of dogs warned Jane to lock her dog away. Jane then returned to the house and saw no traces of their dogs, she was assured by her mom that the dog was with the vet for treatment and is not expected till evening.  She went to sleep in wait for her friend after her lunch.
Some minutes later after she had slept the veterinary doctor returned with the dog that afternoon and happily announced that the presence of the senior doctor quickened the treatment process.
Immediately the vet left, Sandra entered the gate and bolted the lock with full assurance that the dog was locked away in chain to only  meet a beaking dog, the dog approached speedily, Jane remained stiff indecisive of whether to run or to stand, her courage melted like wax, her heart was a pounding drum, sweat springed from her skin pores and streamed from her face down. She was shivering as she stood, tears dropped on the floor and mix with the sandy. Her bladder couldn't curtail the hotness of her urine, it  escape drip by drip at the presence of her tension.  As the dog sniffed her, She made a loud scream and ran off, the dog pursued her fiercely and bit her on the leg before Mrs Brown rushed out and called out for the dog, it panted off the scene as Jane lay crying.

Now why did the dog bite her?
The dog didn't bit her because maybe she stole. the dog bit her because it smelled fear in her and it used it to its advantage.
Some ladies at some level give off signals that invited men like dogs into their  lives. Some of you are scared of being lonely.  Some are scared what society will say about them when they are over due for marriage.
Some are scared they will never see someone who will date them.
Some are scared of the societal pressure.
Some are scared that they are not attractive enough to any guy.
Some are scared of ever losing a guy to another girl even when he treats them wrongly.
Some are scared of repeating similar mistakes.

Your fears is tantamount to one possible outcome, which is heartbreak.
Fear makes you act out your neediness and exposes your vulnerability. When your needy behavior starts playing out a guy see a loop to explore. It striffles virtuosity and makes you a victim. The dog men sees a good enough plunder. He chokes a pound of your flesh and run off. Leaving you deep in pain.

What you refuse to face is attracted to you in increasingly greater  ways.
We might not find the courage to stand dogs clothed in sheep lining to alone take away their fake skins to bark at us but we can always find Jesus. He takes away our fears and fill our heart with faith. Fear don't attract Real men but Real men are attracted by a cheerful spirit that divine love produces and an air of confidence that streams from absolute faith in God.

#BuildingAHeartbreakFreeSociety.