Women Materials

Be a wife material.

 A lot of women are out there today wanting to get married, but they are not ready for the role of marriage. We all want to marry the real man but are we real enough for any man to marry?

  We need to learn the basics of keeping a home. We need to be a wife for a man to marry us. The Bible says,  "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the lord" it didn't say, he who finds a 'girl'.... Stop being a girl and be a wife.. And How do you be a wife?
 1. Learn to keep the home neat;   Be neat, be tidy, be smart. Learn to sweep, learn how to cook, learn how to keep the kitchen tidy during and after cooking. Learn how to scrub the bathroom and make it sparkling. Learn how to arrange your cloths neatly. Learn how to tidy up your shoes and every other thing in the home. Learn how to keep things where they ought to be.

2. Learn how to take care of yourself.  A lot of women go about with different kind of odours; Mouth odour, armpit odour, body odour, vaginal odour, hair odour etc.. These things send the wrong signal about you. They piss men off and they are irritating! Learn to brush your teeth twice daily with a good toothbrush changing your tooth brush after six months. Learn to use good roll-on for your armpit so you don't have to sweat and smell like goats. Bath twice daily focusing on your private parts to remove any residuals that might lead to bacterial growth and odours. Make sure your hair is always neat, combed and tidy. Wear clean cloths. Look good to attract good things.
 3. Have a good attitude. A lot of ladies out there are moving with fine faces but ugly attitude! No. learn to be courteous, learn to talk to people with respect, learn to be humble, learn to smile and put a smile on someone's face. Be polite, be gentle, be warm. You don't know who is watching.
4. Be hardworking. Gone are the days when men were the only ones working to earn an income and women whiling away time. No. As a lady, you got to work hard to get want you want. You have to be able to provide your basic needs and also be a helping hand to someone. You got to be responsible. If you are on a pay roll, you would have no need to depend on a man for anything. Men respects women that can fend for themselves. Stop lazing about! No man wants a liability for a wife.
5. Be prayerful. We live in a physical world controlled by the spiritual realm. To be able to get things done rightly, you need to get on your knees. Marriage isn't a place for the careless ones. The enemies are really attacking homes and relationships. To be able to keep your man and home, you have to pray. Nothing good comes easily. It takes divine intervention to get the real things, including a real man. You got to pray and control things to work in your favour. Be sober, be vigilant, because your enemy, the devil is roaming around seeking whom he may devour.... Pray that you may not become a prey.


Joyce Gold Daniel